Select the venue
Pick a place that matches your style, your guests and your plans
It is almost impossible not to fall for the idea of a Lowcountry wedding. Think dreamy marsh views, breezy beaches and oak trees showing off their Spanish moss like they are dressed for the big day too. Before you start picking your signature cocktail or practicing your first dance, there is one huge choice to make: where will you tie the knot?
Start with what matters most
Before you book a single tour, think about what you truly need. Do you want a sunset view that will make your guests swoon? Space for a hundred of your closest family and plus-ones you have never met? Maybe a place with a solid Plan B if the weather acts up? Be honest about your non-negotiables so you do not waste time falling in love with a spot that will never work.
Think through the details
A gorgeous venue is only part of the story. You will want to check for things like parking, restrooms and whether your guests can actually find the place without getting lost on a dirt road. If you have lots of out-of-town family, consider a spot close to hotels or with shuttle service. No one wants to start the party explaining GPS to Uncle Joe.
Match your style
The Lowcountry can fit just about any wedding personality. If you’re dreaming of a formal event, consider a historic house, elegant church, grand ballroom or one of the area’s upscale hotels or country clubs. If your vibe is laid-back with oysters and a cold beer, a backyard bash, dockside gathering or casual restaurant setting might be just the ticket. Whether you picture chandeliers or string lights, polished pews or driftwood arches, your style should steer the ship, even if that ship is a shrimp boat.
Know the rules
Every venue has its own set of guidelines. Some want the music turned off early. Others have preferred caterers or rules about sparklers. Ask about the fine print so you do not end up in a showdown with the manager on your wedding night.
Keep the season in mind
Spring and fall are wedding hot spots here, with weather that is usually just right. That also means high demand. Summer can work too, as long as you remember that the heat and humidity love to crash a wedding. Look for a spot with fans, shade or indoor space to avoid a meltdown, literally.
Budget smarter
Venues vary wildly in price. Some throw in tables, chairs and maybe even a day-of coordinator. Others hand you a blank canvas and say, “Good luck.” Make sure you understand what is included before signing so you are not scrambling for rentals later.
Tour and trust your gut
Photos online can only show so much. Walk through in person, and pay attention to how you feel. Can you picture everyone laughing and dancing there? Does it feel comfortable? If a place makes you grin and gets you excited about the big day, you probably found the one.
